Ajahn Passano Offers Advice to Those of Us Who Frequently Fall Out of Trees
The nice thing about living closer to Bangkok is that there are a lot more things to do. Life in rural Thailand has its upside, but you certainly lose out when it comes to choice of activities. Last Wednesday I was able to travel into the city for a Dhamma talk by Ajahn Passano. This outing felt like a real adventure; not only was I going to hear a respected Buddhist teacher, but it also meant visiting Bangkok after dark – since my son was born I rarely get out of the house after seven in the evening.
Although I’ve been interested in Buddhism for most of my life I don’t belong to any particular group; I sort of prefer it that way. I see Buddhism more as a practical philosophy that provides a set of tools that I can use in my life- I don’t view it as my religion as such. I try to avoid any type of zealotry, and I’ve no interest in converting other people to my world view; it is just something that I find beneficial. I have friends who are Christians and others who are atheist; my general attitude is whatever works for you is good. I enjoy learning about Buddhism in much the same way as other people like to learn about their hobbies. The great thing about living in Thailand is that there are so many great Buddhist teachers here, and now that I’m living closer to the capital I can actually get to see a lot more of them.
Ajahn Passano Offers Advice to Those Who Frequently Fall Out of Trees
Ajahn Passano is one of the western monks who trained under Ajahn Chah, so I was certainly interested in what he had to say. He is currently the Abbot of Wat Abhayagiri in California. He is visiting Thailand for a couple of weeks and the Dhamma talk at Baan Aree is just one of his scheduled activities. I found out about this Dhamma talk from the Little Bang Website; a great resource for any interested in English language Buddhist events occurring in Bangkok.
The main topic for Ajahn Passano’s talk was dependent origination. This is a difficult concept for some of us to grasp, and it is easy to tie ourselves up in knots trying to work it all out (birth causes becoming which causes clinging…). I’m not very good with this type of deep thought, but Ajahn Passano offered a simple explanation. Basically everything we experience has a cause, and each cause will be preceded by another cause in a chain. If we want to avoid something negative (such as craving) we just have to remove one of the proceeding causes in the link. This sounds complicated, but Ajahn Passano simplified things with a story that was once provided by Ajahn Chah to illustrate the point. He talked about how when somebody falls out of a tree they might be hit by many branches on the way down – we don’t need to be able to name all the branches to experience the pain at the bottom or to avoid falling out of trees.
Meditation Does Not Make You Happy
One of the things that I found most interesting in the talk by Ajahn Passano was his claim that meditation doesn’t make us happy. Instead he talked about how having a good mental state before you begin a meditation session is the most important thing. This is something that makes a lot of sense to me, and it has been my experience also. In the past I’ve used the booze as a means to find happiness, and know that this is only a short-term solution at best. I don’t use meditation as a way to escape my problems but as a means to deal with them. In order for meditation to be beneficial I have to work at the other areas of my life too. If I’m an asshole 90% of the time then I’m unlikely to get much benefit from that 10% of time that I’m meditating. When I put the effort into all areas of my life though, this is when meditation tends to be most successful- the two feed off each other.
The talk by Ajahn Passano was something that I enjoyed, and I hope to attend more such events in the future. The Little Bang website has another report on the talk and you can find that here.
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Hi Paul,
cravings for example alcohol, smoking and other addictions can also be over-ridden by taping on certain pressure points on the body. I’ve forgotten what this technique is called and I’m sorry I can’t post any links to more information.
Hi Mark, I haven’t heard of that technique, but I’ll look out for it.
Hi Paul,
Here’s a link to the above http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2OiLdc426Ro
Thanks Mark, interesting idea
One of the things I am enjoying about Thailand is the exposure to Buddhism. There are so many interesting facets and new things to learn.
You brought up a good point, we need to be mindful and meditative throughout the day, not just during meditation. I equate it to prayer or going to church on Sundays. It doesn’t work unless you live the life you want to lead.
That is a good way to put it Lani. I’ve found that meditation and life feed off each other. Meditation allows me to be more mindful in general life; while being mindful in general life increases my ability to benefit during formal meditation.
Paul a former alcoholic going into Bangkok after dark for the sole purpose of a Buddhist lecture is truly inspirational. Your story shows how far someone can come in overcoming their addictions. There’s hope for us all.
I may have beaten you out of bed this morning, 4-30 was my time. I’m a notorious early riser, the world’s a much better place at that time of the day.
Hi Martyn, early rising has been one of the most wonderful benefits of the sober life. I hope your trip is going well.
“Ajahn Passano Offers Advice to Those of Us Who Frequently Fall Out of Trees”
What a great title Paul. And your explanation: If I’m an asshole 90% of the time then I’m unlikely to be much benefit from that 10% of time that I’m meditating – tops it off (which is why you are a published author – for sure).
Once again I’m going to attempt meditation. Wish me luck in 2011!
Hi Catherine, I was actually a bit worried about the title – I thought it might sound a bit odd. I’ve just noticed that quote has a typo; I meant “get much benefit” and not “be much benefit” – so much for being published 🙂 I’ll go back and change it. I have attention deficit disorder when it comes to editing my own work.
I really do think that you will get great benefits from meditation. It will almost certainly help you sleep a bit better, and that’s not even the tip of the iceberg.
Paul, I noticed that in SE Asia I’m making weird typos in my writing. Some is Singlish Thainglish, etc. Some because I’ve lost my western ear for what’s right.
Btw – I have yet another of Jon’s books/cds. I met up with my niece in December and she’s also a fan so shared a subject I wouldn’t normally purchase. I’ll tell all in an email…
I think my typos are just due to carelessness. I’m already thinking about the next sentence before I’ve finished the one I’m typing. It’s the same when I’m talking. I look forward to the email 🙂